Many people's lives are ripped apart by self-doubt and destroyed by fear of failing. BEING CAREFUL becomes their sorry trademark! Careful not to fail, careful not to upset people and careful not to be judges or rejected! This results in never fully UNLEASHING their true selves and always settling for second best - in the job they apply for, the course of study they pursue, the person they ask out on a coffee or to marry them! What makes it worse is that deep down they know they are capable of so much more.... and it tears them apart inside.